How it works


PromisingDates is a modern premium dating website. This is the place to find your future partner, your other half!

PromisingDates is different from other online dating sites. Only users with a verified email address, verified mobile phone number, and verified payment via PayPal can become active members at this site.

We operate this site on ethical principles. We openly publish our customer service phone number and email at this website so that you can actually contact us. When you contact us, you will be greeted by a real human being. We never use bots or any automated customer service systems.

Let your friends know about this site so that this site will grow and both you and your friends will benefit.

Signing-up for a trial/evaluation account is FREE. A trial account provides only partial functionality. Fully functional site membership is US$ 19.99 per month, and is non-recurring, so we never automatically charge you. We accept secure payment via PayPal.

All users at this site specify the following via their 'about me' profile: located country, state/province, city, zip/postal code, gender, year of birth (age), occupation group, education level, race group, height group, weight group, pet preference, music preference, outdoor activity preference, religion preference, smoking preference, alcohool preference and personal interests/hobbies. This wealth of information is available as filter criteria to you when search for your future partner!

Our unique 'promising-matches' technology attempts to match you with suitable partner(s) in your area based on your 'about me' profile. This feature is available only to paid/regular site members. The matching profiles are sent automatically to you, via email twice a week when there are available matches.

Functionality matrix:

Function Visitor Trial member Regular/paid member
Register for an account (free)
Verify email account
Contact support team via email
Receive priority support
Set/update password recovery questions and answers
Change password
Password recovery
Specify profile location
Specify and verify mobile phone
Create/update your profile
Set/update your profile photos
Unsubscribe from notification emails
Search for matching partners and view profile summaries
Make membership payment via PayPal/credit-card
View matching partner profiles
Introduce oneself to potential future partners
Exchange messages with potential future partners
Display 'premium' trust icon in profile search results
Display 'premium' trust icon in profile
Receive unread message notifications via email
Receive twice weekly promising-matches profile notifications via email
Report inappropriate profiles
Close account


For your safety while at this site and away, we recommend that you read and follow the Safe Dating Tips.

For your enhanced security, we compute mathematical hashes of passwords and secret answer text for storage and verification, and never the plain-text values.

Your membership payment will be processed securely via PayPal. We do not auto-renew membership. We never receive or store your credit card details or other confidential payment details.


If you have any questions, concerns or suggestions, please contact us.